Difficult decisions often feel complicated because several questions are mixed together. Talking through them can help separate facts, assumptions, risks and preferences.
A simple framework
- What decision actually needs to be made?
- What are the realistic options?
- What matters most to you?
- What is the biggest downside?
- What information are you missing?
The goal is not for another person to make the decision for you. The goal is to help you think more clearly.